Remain Faithful

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The world seems dark right now. This is not the first time our world has walked the path of darkness. I watch my Christian brothers and sisters falter, and it breaks my heart. Then I ask myself, where is my faith? My soul whispers, “remain faithful.”

After Paul speaks in the synagogue at Antioch, Acts 13:43 reads: After the congregation had dispersed, many Jews and worshipers who were converts to Judaism followed Paul and Barnabas, who spoke to them and urged them to remain faithful to the grace of God.

I get it, discouragement and fear drains the life force of faith from our features. Some of my friends and colleagues have given up. I’ve been there wanting security and fun. For many years I stood the middle trying to appease everyone around me. I straddled God’s path and the secular world. Why? Because I was afraid of losing my livelihood. Remember that Great Recession? How would I feed my family? As the world becomes more hostile to the faithful, I am facing tough decisions based on the choices my managers and government may make. And yes, that ugly fear pokes at me again.

We are in the midst of a fight for truth, and I am watching God’s people give up the fight before battle is over. I want to see truth. Yes, there is darkness all around us, but we do not need to accept it. He calls us to be the light of the world! [Matthew 5:14] With God in our lives, we dispel darkness! And United with God, we bring light and truth to a dark world. My candle may not burn as bright as some, but thousands, no… millions of Christians in the world today burn bright.

In my search for ‘remain faithful’ I found Psalm 12. King David cries for help from the Lord. The New American Bible Revised Edition titles this Psalm: Prayer Against Evil Tongues. Nothing could be more appropriate for me today as I fight to remain faithful. Please pray in the spirit with me Psalm 12:

1For the leader; “upon the eighth.” A psalm of David.

I

2Help, Lord, for no one loyal remains;

the faithful have vanished from the children of men.

3 They tell lies to one another,

speak with deceiving lips and a double heart.

II

4May the Lord cut off all deceiving lips,

and every boastful tongue,

5Those who say, “By our tongues we prevail;

when our lips speak, who can lord it over us?”

III

6“Because they rob the weak, and the needy groan,

I will now arise,” says the Lord;

I will grant safety to whoever longs for it.”

IV

7The promises of the Lord are sure,

silver refined in a crucible,

silver purified seven times.

8 You, O Lord, protect us always;

preserve us from this generation.

9 On every side the wicked roam;

the shameless are extolled by the children of men.

In the name of Jesus amen.

Hold on to your faith in our awesome God and remain faithful. He will reveal the truth. Shine bright with me today, my friends,

Milly

*Scripture references are from the New American Bible Revised Edition.

Out Running the Storm

Can I get home before… What’s that in the Storm? God’s Promise… (Photo by Milly Moss)

Lately I feel like I am out running a major storm of Cat 5 proportions. Everywhere I look, I see panic. Warnings of shutdowns and threats of more violence abound on the news that filters to me. The “run run hurry hurry” panic builds in my chest. Slow down, Milly. Let’s see through the darkening atmosphere.

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Daniel’s Prayer

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Growing up Christian, I learned the same stories over and over. The Red Sea and the escape from Egypt, the Garden of Eden, Jesus walking on the water, and Daniel in the lions’ den were just a few. I heard the stories so much that I thought I knew all about it. What I missed was the adult version of the story.

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When We Are Lost

Lost in the Night… (Photo by Milly Moss)

This week my moms found something in the parable of the Lost Son.  Usually, I glaze over when this parable is mentioned.  I cannot count the number of sermons and homilies I have heard on the “Prodigal Son.”  My mom pointed out a four-word phrase that changed my thinking.

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Cherish the Elders

Happy Grandparents Day!  I wouldn’t have remembered it yesterday if not for my Parish Priest’s reminder.  It is easy to forget it in the myriad of days dedicated to something or another in the United States. However, it got me thinking… What has God got to say about our grandparents and elders?

Children’s children are the crown of the elderly,

and the glory of children is their parentage.

[Proverbs 17:6 1NABRE]

3 In your youth you did not gather.

How will you find anything in your old age?

4 How appropriate is sound judgment in the gray-haired,

and good counsel in the elderly!

5 How appropriate is wisdom in the aged,

understanding and counsel in the venerable!

6 The crown of the elderly, wide experience;

their glory, the fear of the Lord.

[2Ben Sira 25:3-6]

In Proverbs 17:6 grandchildren are the pinnacle of life (crown) to their elders, the children find glory in their parentage.  That would be their parents and grandparents.  In God’s realm this is a symbiotic relationship, God links the parent and child into a beautiful relationship.

God commands us to honor our father and mother.  I learned this lesson in my dad’s last years.  My moms are easy to love and honor.  They are loving, giving, and faithful.  But dad, not so much; with dad I started by obeying God’s command.  The bonus was when I learned to love him again.

I am gifted with two elders in my life, my moms.  They are still with us and bless my children in their roles as grandparents.  More important, the Grandmas pray for us.  They are our champions, our prayer warriors.  I trust these ladies with my life. 

Our elders offer us sound judgment, good counsel, wisdom, and understanding (knowledge).  The inspired writer tells us:  Our elders can be good counselors with their wide experience and the fear of the Lord.  This is the gold for us to find beneath the silver hairs.

He gives us what to look for in an elder.  Look for someone who follows the Lord with respect and has experience.  America has a sad history of shutting out and disrespecting our elders.  For a while, I shut out my dad.  I learned the hard way I was going against God.  If we chose to follow God according to 2Exodus 20:12, He blesses us.  “Honor your father and your mother, that you may have a long life in the land the Lord your God is giving you.”

I realize not every grandparent or elder is a stellar example.  They say my great-grandmother was a saint.  Grandmother had intense love and judgement.  And grandma could be a mean alcoholic.  Grandfather was stoic and hard-hearted.  I didn’t even know one grandfather until I was an adult.  My dad wasn’t a stellar example either.  

The point is, all parents are imperfect.  The blessing in God’s commandment was not for my elders.  It is for me.  Don’t forget God brings people into our lives to fill the gap. Even though I struggled with my dad, when I listened, I learned wisdom from his experiences too.

Maybe you don’t have someone to go to for wisdom.  Look around you, look past the faults, and see if there is someone wise in your circle.  If not, we all have one Elder that is Holy and higher than all the elders on the earth. 

You know what I’m going to say:  He is God Almighty.  He created you, and he will not abandon you.  We have His Word and His Presence.  Reach out and get to know Him on a personal level.  Then ask for wisdom and guidance.  He is faithful to get the knowledge into your hands.  I could call him my Ultimate Elder!

On earth we have a time limit. That makes sooner is better than later.  Don’t lose time with your elders as I did.  If all you can do is honor your parentage, then do that alone.  That is where I started with dad.  I don’t regret honoring my parents and grandparents, even with all their faults. 

What I regret is how late in the game I honored my parents.  Remember, this is important enough for God to make it a commandment.  This is not a suggestion or when it feels good kind of action.  Believers honor our parents whether we love our parents or not.

Don’t worry about missing Grandparent’s Day. You have time to go out and give your elders a bit of love.  God’s commandments are an everyday action.  I can tell you God doesn’t care what day you honor them, just that we do it!  It can be a note, a hug, an act of kindness, a listening ear, a prayer, or biting back a retort.  Even if parents have passed on, honor them with a memory, or a prayer.

God loves all his people.  It breaks His Heart when we throw people away.  It also hurts our culture.  When we throw away our Elders, we throw away sound judgment, good counsel, wisdom, and understanding.  If “In your youth you did not gather.” Then, How will you find anything in your old age?” the commandments of God improve us and our culture.

Here is my prayer for all parents, grandparents, and elders today:

Dear Heavenly Father, bless our elders with great health, sound minds, and love for their families.  Please honor these precious people you have brought into our lives.  Thank you for blessing us with their sound judgment, good counsel, wisdom, and understanding.  May we always seek Your Wisdom through Your Holy Word, the faithful you have brought into our lives as elders, and through our prayers.  Thank you Father for these blessings in Jesus’ name, amen.  In the name of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit amen.

Peace be with you,

Milly

P.S.  This is my understanding of the scriptures.  I am not a theologian.  I am just a layperson looking at the world through my relationship with God, prayers, study, and experiences.

1New American Bible Revised Edition. 

2I used the NABRE throughout the post since the book Ben Sira is only in Catholic Editions of the Holy Bible.

Morning Guidance

This morning I woke with praise for the Almighty on my lips.  Yes, my head was pounding and my thoughts blurred by sleep.  During the early morning hours, I woke a few times before I got up.  Each time I thanked God for the day, his graces, or for being my God before fading back to sleep. 

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